A Look Into the Future: What Will the dating ads Industry Look Like in 10 Years?
I’m not surprised by the numerous dating ads that pop up in Facebook. I usually have no problem with them since I’m not looking for a date. The thing is, I do have a problem with that specific ad though. I can’t seem to shake the urge to go see that specific person or the exact situation. It’s like my brain is constantly telling me that I should go see that person.
So, I am not alone. The problem is, I think that this is especially bad when the ad is a person who you want to see you. It feels like you’ve said something wrong, you’ve made a mistake, you’re embarrassing yourself, or you’re being creepy to them. These are all things I would probably do if I was in that situation though.
I have a friend who is dating a girl who is a few months into her relationship, so I think it is safe to say that she has not yet had any of the actual experiences that make people want to go see her. The problem is that I think this is where the problem lies. When we are dating this girl, we are at her mercy, and so it is very easy for her to do something like tell us that she is not interested in our first date.
I agree, and I think that’s a bad thing. If we are giving this girl the power to say “I’m not interested” to us when we are in her life, then it is very easy to make her feel like she doesn’t have to. A bad thing.
It’s like, why should the girl feel like she has to be the perfect girlfriend? If you dont want to date her, then you shouldnt date her. If you tell her something that makes her feel like she has to be the best girlfriend, then you have screwed up her whole relationship. And if she feels like she has to be the best girlfriend, then she will feel like she needs to act like she is the perfect girlfriend, and by extension, the best girlfriend.
The idea that the “perfect girl” is defined by her inability to be an “unconditionally perfect girlfriend” is so pervasive that it’s actually a common misconception. To put it simply, most people have no idea what a “perfect girl” is. When we are young, people often confuse the idea of “having to be perfect” with “having to be perfect while having to constantly change”.
This misconception is further perpetuated by the fact that most people actually do have a girlfriend. If you’re looking for a girlfriend, you want to find someone that you can be with without having to constantly change it up. As a result, if you’re looking for a long-term relationship, a lot of the time you are going to be looking to date someone that isn’t going to be changing up on you.
The truth is, a lot of times you are going to be dating someone that will be changing up on you. This is usually due to one of two things. Either the person is going to be someone you have known a long time, or they are someone that isnt the same person youve known all along. In the case of being someone you KNOW hasnt changed throughout the years, it is usually indicative of whether or not they are a good person to be with.
These days the best way to find out if someone is a good person to be with is to get them to try and date someone who can. If they can’t, that indicates they are either not a good person, or that you and them arent meant to be together.
I am not saying that I wouldnt date somebody who doesnt know if they are good, but that it would be the second time youre going to have to date someone that doesnt know when they arent good. I wouldnt date anybody who isnt good.